Nothing screams the “Swingin’ Seventies” more than giant bushy pubes, Quaaludes, and key parties. Though nether region aesthetics and party favors may have changed over time, one thing that remains the same is the excitement of adding an extra person (or more) under the sheets. Since the inception of the North American Swing Club Association in 1963, the swinger lifestyle has seen its own changes.

The 60s and 70s popularized key clubs, where husbands tossed their house keys into a bowl in the center of the room where they were drawn at random by the wives. The owner of a selected key was the sexual partner for the evening. But, was what was once said with a wink and a nod is now communicated by a smart phone app.

The rise of the internet and smart phones brought forth exciting new possibilities for lifestyler’s in the 21st century. Swinging has clearly come a long way as sex and the technology that surrounds it continues to evolve. From dating apps, to smart sex toys and more, we’ve put together a quick guide to swinging sex tech in 2018!


The last 5 years has brought on a major rise in sex positive matching websites and apps. But, if and Tinder are a little too vanilla for you, check out these awesome websites that will surely push all your right buttons.

Swinger Safari: Voted best Lifestyle App 2 years in a row, Swinger Safari is a premier GPS enabled Swinger App that provides the adult lifestyle community with the ability to locate people with similar interest in their area.

Full Swap: Designed to be discreet, this new app will let you set up exciting group chats, send short naughty videos, share sexy photos and even send and receive sultry voice messages directly through the app.

Whiplr: Looking for play partners with specific kinks? From swinging to BDSM, latex, roleplay and much more, this app is the largest mobile community for finding like-minded people through with their location-based messenger.

Kasidie: Known as an adult community for sexually adventurous people, Kasidie members are into a wide variety of fun, including swinging, swinger parties, erotic events, dining, writing, travel, BDSM, fetishes and more.


Regardless of what scenario you find yourself playing in, FFM, MMF, MFM, anything extra or in between, the following high-tech sex toys will surely gratify your next group romping.

Lush: This “teledildonics” vibrator syncs up with your Apple phone or Apple Watch enabling the sex toy to be controlled by a partner.

Sex Swing: Enjoy an endless range of positions and combinations with a sex swing. Long considered the ultimate toy for couples, sex swings are a great way to explore your wild side.

Double Silver Bullets: Get double the pleasure and double the fun with this swinger sex kit staple. Easily stimulate one partner or more with this discreet classic sex toy.

Vesper: This beautifully designed toy doubles as a necklace and vibrator for the sophisticated yet bold lover in your life. Popular among swingers, it also serves as a subtle little way to let people know you may be DTF.