Sure, you can stick to boring resolutions like quitting coffee or hitting the gym more, but for the start of the new decade, why not set some resolutions you’ll be more than excited to keep? Need some sexy inspiration? Look no further as we’ve put together a Hedonist bucket list that will surely make the year to come one of the best yet!


1. Sex in Public

Be careful with this one as you don’t want to get into any trouble! The risk of getting caught can make the sex very passionate and fun!

2. Buy a New Toy

If you haven’t gone sex toy shopping in a while, you’ll be amazed at what sex toys can do these days. From inclusive toys to couples’ massagers and toys that use smart technology, sonic vibrations and ultra-realistic silicone, you’re bound to find something new and fun to try. Check out the Hedo Boutique next time you’re here for an amazing selection!


3. Roleplay

Get spicy with some imaginative fun and try adding roleplaying to your sexual arsenal. Need some inspo? Check out our 5 Fun Roleplaying Ideas.

4. Re-enact Your Favorite Porn

Stroll by the good ole orange and black .com and find a scene that turns you both on! Shout out to this particular writers favorite alphabet leg (iykyk) for lots of reenactment inspo.

5. Have a Threesome

Often on the top of many sex bucket lists is having a threesome. If you haven’t already, make this the year! Don’t forget to check out 3 Reasons to Have a Threesome at Hedonism II!

6. Try Bondage

If you have interest in bondage of any type such as shibari or other rope bondage, handcuffs, chains, ankle spreader bars or any other type of restraint starting with more cost-effective breakaway bondage gear like Velcro handcuffs is an excellent place to start exploring.

7. Have a Sexy Photoshoot

Surprise your lover with an intimate set of photos that will keep them hot & bothered all year long!

8. Swing

Visit your local swinger club together and participate as much or as little as you want but have fun!

9. Be a Voyeur

Whether you’re at a sex party or your local swinger club, take a night to be a voyeur and watch other people play. Not only can this be a hot experience, but you may get inspired!

10. Have Sex in the Shower

With cascading waterfall showerheads, red mood lighting and huge mirrors, the showers at Hedonism II have seen their fair play of sexy action. Book your next trip now and get ready to get steamy this year.

11. Have Sex on Vacation

What’s a sexy bucket list without a trip to the best hedonistic place on earth? Visit our Sexy Specials page and book your 2023 trip today!

12. Visit a Strip Club

Going to a strip club is great at lowering inhibitions and can help add a sultry sexual ambience that you can carry into the bedroom later.

13. Make Out for Over an Hour

When was the last time you kissed your partner for a long time without having sex? Next time you Netflix & chill, lock lips till they feel tingly and buzzy.

14. Have Fun with Whipped Cream

Incorporate whipped cream or honey for a sweet (and maybe a little sticky) sexy time you won’t soon forget.

15. Spank or Get Spanked

Know someone naughty that needs to be punished? Find an array of whips from paddles to floggers at the Hedo Gift Shop. Add it to your outfit for the perfect accessory to our Fetish Leather & Lingerie Theme Night.

16. Have Sex in a Pool, Hot Tub or the Sea

We know the perfect place 😉

17. Have Sex Blindfolded

Sensory deprivation can help heighten all your other senses, spice up you sex and even help you create a deeper sense of intimacy and trust with your partner.

18. Play a Sex Game

Silly, sexy and fun, sex games can bring out your competitive side and make you horny at the same time. Sounds like a good time to us!

19. Have Phone Sex

Whether its a sultry text message or a phone sex, sharing your desires from a distance can help build a deeper connection that boosts your libido and help you share your innermost fantasies.

20. Dress Up in Costume or Cosplay

Every night at Hedo is a chance to play dress up. With new exciting themes this year like Casino Night, Hedonistic Professionals, Barbie’s Dreamhouse and more, get ready to enjoy getting into character during your next trip home.

21. Get Baked

Visit Heedo Weedo and checkout one of the newer additions to Hedo’s tantalizing hedonistic offerings for locally grown THC products including Oils, Flower, Pre-Rolls and more.

22. Connect with Your People

Stay in touch and connect with your Hedo friends old and new! Join the Official Hedonism II Facebook Group and be part of the converssation!

23. Fulfill Your Freakiest Fantasy (at HEDO, of course)!