There’s nothing wrong with a little wine, dine and 69 but your relationship is anything but vanilla, so why should your Valentine’s day be any different? Ditch the cliché dinner date and heart-shaped chocolate box this year and celebrate your kinky love for each other with one of our 5 sexy valentine’s day ideas for swingers, throuples, nudists and lifestylers of all kinds.

1. Have a Sensual Photo Shoot

Put on your sexiest lingerie, flaunt your assets and strike a pose for a Valentine’s Day you can look back on for years to come. Enjoy being each other’s muse and get creative with outfits, backdrops and props! This sexy V-day date doubles as a gift if you get the images printed and bound as a boudoir book. That’s a win/win!

2. Indulge in Aphrodisiacs

Prepare a tasting menu full of delicious aphrodisiac foods such as chili peppers, strawberries, honey, figs, chocolate, cinnamon, cherries, oysters and red wine. You will start to feel the temperature rise one bite at a time! Up the sexy ante by playing an adult version of the blind taste test game. Simply take turns blindfolding and feeding each other while the blind party tries to guess the food. Answer wrong and you must remove one article of clothing. Answer correctly and you’ve earned yourself one orgasm. Everyone wins!

3. Go to a Swingers Club

If getting DP’ed, swapping, hotwifing or having an audience sounds like your idea of a sexy and romantic time, what better way to celebrate Valentine’s day than at a swingers club with fun, sexy, like-minded people? Many swinger’s clubs host Valentine’s day parties grab your lover and go see and be seen!

4. Shop for Sex Toys Together

You may have the perfect Valentine’s day gift picked out for the hedonist in your life but shopping together for sex toys can both spice up your sex life and make for a fun Valentine’s day date. Discover new kinks, explore your fantasies and learn about each other’s fetishes and boundaries with some lusty retail therapy.

5. Reenact Your Favorite Porn

Sexy alien from outer space? Pizza delivery boy? Hot for teacher? Sub-slut for Dom? Get a little porn-spiration and spend some time perusing your favorite adult flicks and pick one to reenact together. Make sure to stretch first!

6. Bonus Tip: Plan Your Next Hedo Trip!

Does the thought of being home at Hedo get you hot and heavy? Celebrate Valentine’s day by planning your next Hedo vacation together and get ready to be wicked for a week!